Tuesday, December 31, 2013
Tuesday, December 24, 2013
Merry Christmas from our house to yours!
Twas the Night
By L. Daniel Quinn
Twas the night before Christmas and poor Clement Moore
Had his poem being copied by many a bore
His "Night Before Christmas" is perfect in rhyme
His rhythm and cadence are wonderfully fine.
But then come the wise guys, with Internet cool
Who use Clement's rhyme as sort of a tool
They pick up the style from this poem of "that
night"
And they hitch up their sled to whatever's their gripe.
Now I'm not even saying that there's something not right
By using Moore's poem to carry a fight.
I guess my complaint is not in their chore
But the number of times they steal from Clem Moore.
So I say to you all as I close down this gripe
"Merry Christmas to All, and to All a Good Night!"
Thursday, November 28, 2013
Tuesday, November 5, 2013
Remembrance Day
Remembrance Day in Canada, November 11th. the day we remember all the
fallen soldiers and pay tribute to them, including the ones that are still away from
their families in order to “try” and keep world peace. I am an avid Facebook
user and I posted the above picture on my Facebook and I was rather surprised
at the reactions I got opposing my point of view. Most people including myself
don’t decorate this early in the season, but there are some who do. This is
only my opinion and is not meant to over-power anyone else’s thoughts but after
I got the comments I did, I felt the need to say my piece, so here goes;
I will start at the beginning of the year…
1…New Year’s Eve/Day- January (Statutory/public paid holiday
celebration) …. People spend money on
alcohol, party décor and food to celebrate a
new year. I have yet to see anyone having Valentines decorations
adorning their homes for this celebration. We all say “Happy New Year”
2…Valentine’s Day- February….(Non-holiday non paid holiday
celebration) People spend money on cards, flowers, candy, jewelry and fancy
high priced restaurants. I have yet to see anyone decorate in the Irish style
of St Patrick’s Day. We all say “Happy
Valentine’s Day”
3… St Patrick’s Day- March…(Non-holiday non-paid celebration)
no need to explain this because EVERYONE is Irish on this day and we all know
what that means. I have yet to see anyone decorating eggs and having the Easter
Bunny décor all set up. We all say “Happy
St Paddy’s Day”
4… Easter Sunday- April…(Statutory/public paid holiday
celebration).. Even those who are not religious celebrate this day for the
children by having the Easter Bunny visit, yet I have never seen a Mother get
flowers or candy to celebrate her special day. We all say “Happy Easter”
5… Mother’s Day- May…(Non-holiday non-paid celebration) Yes
I am a Mother and I love having a special day dedicated to JUST ME, yet I have
never seen any mother share her special day with the up-coming Father’s Day. We
all say “Happy Mother’s Day”
6… Father’s Day - June…(Non-holiday non-paid celebration)
Yes every Father is like every Mother and they love having a day dedicated to
JUST THEM. Yet I have not seen anyone decorate for this day getting ready for
July 1st Canada’s Birthday. We all say “Happy Father’s Day”
7… Canada Day- July… (Statutory/public paid holiday
celebration) Canada’s birthday! We all celebrate this. It’s a very wonderful
patriotic Canadian Holiday. We decorate in our countries colours and party all
day and into the night. Yet I have never seen anyone decorate for the next
holiday the following month. We all say “Happy
Canada Day”
8…Civic Holiday- August… (Statutory/public paid holiday
celebration) A holiday the government thought we deserved for who knows but various
events are held to celebrate aspects of local culture, history and achievement.
Many celebrations are low-key and are organized by community members It’s a
holiday we all take with happiness since it’s a well-deserved holiday in our
eyes. Let’s face it, who doesn’t love a paid day off! There is usually no decorating
for this one, but there are plenty of parties and get together to celebrate
this day. Yet I have never seen anyone decorate or celebrate the next holiday
the following month. Some do say “Happy
Civic Holiday” although it’s really not the norm.
9… Labour Day- September…(Statutory/public paid holiday
celebration) A holiday that originally gave workers the chance to campaign for
better working conditions or pay but in most people’s eyes it’s the last long
weekend ending the summer season. We all have a great time and enjoy this
holiday to its fullest. Yet I have never seen anyone decorate or begin to
celebrate the next 2 holidays the following month. We usually all do say “Happy Labour Day”.
10…Thanksgiving- October...(Statutory/public paid holiday
celebration) A bit different from the American Thanksgiving, but we still give
thanks for the bountiful harvest of the growing season. People decorate with
the Thanksgiving theme of turkeys and cornucopia/horn of plenty. Alongside that
comes the pumpkin and apple pies. Loved ones gather around the table to give
thanks for all they have. Yet I have never seen the decorations for the next
celebration adorning the homes even though it’s only a few short weeks from
this holiday. We all say “Happy
Thanksgiving”
11...Halloween- October…(non-paid non-holiday celebration)
We all know this celebration and most everyone decorates and participates for
this one. People spend money on candy treats to hand out to the Trick or
Treaters and some go full out decorating their homes with themed lights,
frightening decorations and cries of pain and fear coming from different sound
effects. Most everyone loves this celebration. We all say “Happy Halloween” This is the time everyone starts the big count
down until Christmas. The stores begin to set up all the Christmas displays,
people start to get in the Christmas spirit. They begin to talk and set up
their Christmas house decorations and the usual talk is “have you started your
Christmas shopping yet?”
12… Remembrance Day ….November.. (non-paid non-holiday
celebration except for Government workers) This
day is to remember the sacrifice of those two hundred thousand plus Canadian
Soldiers who fought and died for us, for their homes and families and friends,
for a collection of traditions they cherished and a future they believed in;
they fight and die for Canada. The meaning of their sacrifice rests with our
collective national consciousness; our future is their monument. In other
words they fought for our rights to have and celebrate the above holiday
celebrations in the ways we have been accustomed to. There are some
celebrations for the Veteran’s and the Poppy is worn to honour these brave men
and women, yet the upcoming Christmas season seems to take precedence over this
single day for many people. For some of
us including myself this day is held in high respect. Some find nothing wrong
with setting up their Christmas decorations but I for one feel that we should
respect the Veterans and Soldiers who are still fighting the fight and let them
have this day in honour of all they have done and given to us so we can have those
many holiday celebrations without the hustle and bustle of the upcoming
Christmas season. Once this single day is over then go and decorate, talk about
Christmas, have all the parties you want, just respect what this day means to
our Veterans.
Happy Happy Happy!
Wow where has the time gone? It seems like only a few short
weeks ago I could be found sitting out on the deck catching some warm sun and
now that said deck is covered in leaves! Thanksgiving (for Canadians) and
Halloween have passed and now the stores are filled with the sights and sounds
of Christmas and our city’s annual Christmas Parade is in 3 weeks! We have
escaped the early snowfalls that have occurred in Ontario so for that I am
thankful. This year has certainly been filled with its fair share of highs and
lows. Unfortunately it’s been filled with more lows with the passing of more
than a few family members. I will be glad when 2013 makes its exit and a new
year begins.
A long time ago I posted a blog about being a grandmother………………….to
2 very cute but slobbery English bull dogs. Yes I am the proud grandmother to
Ava and Toot (a name well chosen). With great pleasure and lots of excitement I
can now say that those slobbery, snorting bundles of joy will have to share
their domain with a baby. Yes, around the date of May 3rd I am going to be a
real Nana!!!!!! I have to give my daughter much credit for the way she informed
me of my impending Nana-hood, she really does have a very creative mind. A few
weeks ago she and her soon to be hubby came into town for a dinner get
together. During the dinner she produced 3 pictures. The first one was of her,
her soon to be hubby and the 2 grand-doggies. Her and hubby were holding a sign
saying “and then there was 3”. I smiled that polite smile and said “ oh joy you
are getting another dog.” Neither said anything as I looked at the second
picture. In this picture they were both holding a sign near her belly and it
said coming Mayish 2014. I looked at the picture for a minute and then up at
both of them with a puzzled look. I’ll be honest, the thought did cross my mind
that she was pregnant, but that vanished pretty quickly since this is the
daughter that said she did not want kids, but I was also grappling with the
thought that it does NOT take that long for puppies to be born. The third and
final picture was the one that brought tears to my eyes. It was of her and
hubby hugging with her holding baby booties! I’m never one to be left
speechless but I found myself not being able to say anything for what seemed
like forever. Of course once I found my voice again I did nothing but cry and congratulate
them both. So yes dear Blogging friends in the early part of May 2014…I am
going to be a Nana! (Can you tell I am happy????? J)
Tuesday, October 15, 2013
A Great Long Weekend!!
I hope everyone enjoyed their long weekend, whether you are
Canadian and celebrated Thanksgiving or American and was able to relax and
enjoy your Columbus Day celebrations whatever they may have been. We had our
Thanksgiving Dinner on the Sunday and since it was kind of damp with the odd
fall shower it was the perfect day. Even though I’m not really one for turkey I
have to admit it turned out perfect. My youngest daughter was in charge of
bringing deserts and bless her heart she baked up a storm making personal
Pumpkin Pie and Apple Pie Tarts. The dinner table talk was filled with memories
of past holiday experiences with lots of giggles and the odd tear of missing
the loved ones that have passed.
Thanksgiving Day Monday this year was greeted by wonderful sunny and warm temperatures. Mother Nature must have been in a good mood for a change making it a good day to take a walk through Apps Mill. We used to take the kids there every year on Thanksgiving Day and since it had been more than a few years since I have been there I had a wonderful time. The colours were amazing and the smell of autumn leaves filled the air. I guess I wasn’t the only one who decided to walk the trails since the parking lot was full and the sounds of children and dogs could be heard. We took our time going through the trails and even did some off trail walking which wasn’t the best idea I ever had. I had forgotten how damn hard it is to get burrs out of clothing not to mention getting them off of Bentley!
I did have a near mishap that put many onlookers in stitches
as they watched my youngest daughter cry out and save me from a fate worse than…well…humiliation???
My daughter is one that loves to take pictures and so she decided that having
me posed sitting on a very low rickety bridge would make for an excellent shot.
I’m not one to have my picture taken but it was such a gorgeous day and I was
in a wonderful mood so I figured what the heck, I’ll do it. I ever so carefully
stepped onto the low bridge to make sure it would hold me. Last thing I wanted
to have happen was me plopping my ass down on that old weather beaten piece of
wood and have it collapse on me. It seemed strong enough and I even bounced on
it a few times just to be certain and all was ok. The bridge was very low and
me being well…it’s hard to gracefully sit down on a few planks of wood that is
maybe 12 inches from the running water going under it, that I thought of a good
idea. I stepped back off the bridge and gingerly stepped down on a log that
seemed firmly embedded into the creek bed and then all hell broke loose! It
seemed the log was NOT firmly embedded and as soon as my weight went on it…the
damn thing moved and then rolled causing me to lose my balance. Have you ever
had that dreaded feeling like “O.M.G. I’m going down and it isn’t going to be
pretty? Well I did and it wasn’t pretty. Yes my ass landed with a hard thump
onto the wood, but then gravity decided my weight should be more distributed
causing me to lie back as I landed and that in turn lead to my one hand
grabbing at anything it could find to stop this impending doom. It turns out
that gravity won. I was semi laying/sitting on these low planks of wood with my
one hand submerged in the cold creek while my legs went upwards at a 90 degree
angle and began flailing helplessly making my ass rock back and forth threating
to send me ass over tea-kettle into the creek. We all know what tunnel vision
is but I had tunnel hearing. I could hear low slow motion laughter and then a
long pronounced MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM coming from my daughter. Her words were
distorted but I heard her call out “grab my hand!” I never seen my life flash
before me, but everything seemed to be going in slow motion as I struggled to
lift my hand out of the creek while balancing on my tail bone with my feet in
the air. It seemed like hours when in fact it was less than 30 seconds as my
daughter rescued me from ending up laying in the creek with my feet in the air.
There were more than a few chuckles as I gracefully sat back up and then “crawled”
across the bridge to get to the other side. I cleared my throat stood up and faced
everyone. I smiled and said, “Damn that was close” and turned and walked down
the trail. An older gentleman off to the side smiled and winked at me and then
said as he held out his hand carved walking stick “maybe I should make one for
you?” I politely smiled and replied “walk
calmly and carry a big stick?” He laughed as I winked at him and continued on
down the trail. There will definitely be NO MORE picture posing for me!
Friday, October 11, 2013
Happy Thanksgiving weekend to all my Canadian Blogger Friends
In 1578, an English navigator named Martin Frobisher held a feast to give thanks for surviving his long journey. He was settled in Newfoundland and as the other settlers arrived they continued this tradition. Around 1750, the American settlers in Canada, continued to celebrate the day in Nova Scotia. Simultaneously, the French settlers started arriving in Canada with their explorer Samuel de Champlain and held a grand feast of Thanksgiving where the settlers even invited the Indians. The citizens of Halifax, also held a special day for Thanksgiving after the sever years of war ended in 1763.
The Canadian Parliament declared 6th November in 1879 as the Thanksgiving Day and a national holiday. With time the date changed to the third Monday in October but ultimately in 1957 on January 31st the parliament proclaimed second Monday in October will be held as the Thanksgiving Day.
Saturday, September 14, 2013
Out with the old season in with a new one
Well, it has been a bit since I sat down and actually blogged,
but here I am. I’m not sure what Mother Nature is trying to prove here, but she
does not have a very good sense of humour. One day it is sweltering heat with
the humidity up to 42 Celsius (107 Fahrenheit) and a few days later we are
switching from the cool A/C to mumbling as we adjust the heat from the furnace.
Maybe I’m just getting old and can’t take the cold mornings like I used to be
able to, but damn, waking up to a house that is 12 Celsius (54 degrees Fahrenheit)
is not fun. Even the dog had snuggled under the blankets with me to get warm.
Actually I do love the fall season, in fact it’s my favourite season, but hells
bells Mother Nature, let my body slowly adjust to the temperature changes before
throwing hints of frost at me, besides fall doesn’t officially start until the
21st.
The end of the summer fish fry went very well and damn it
did taste good. This year instead of holding it at the house, we decided to go
camping at the camp ground that was more like a summer home in the earlier
years and invited the people out to the camp ground for the fish fry. What can I
say? I was feeling nostalgic and wanted to relive my earlier years of Labour
Day camping and fish fry. There was certainly enough fish, salad and fresh corn
on the cob to go around with plenty enough for a second helping if you wanted.
I did take a few walks down the trails with Bentley in the lead and wow, did my
mind go back in time. It was refreshing to remember, but also kind of sad.
Where the hell did the time go??
Over the course of the last few years I have worked in a few
places, but nothing really seemed to fit me. I tried on a couple of positions
as I went to work at a taxation place to becoming a tele- recruiter for the
Heart and Stroke Foundation and a few odd jobs in between. I noticed I was slowly
entering the position of a “Couch Potato”. This job requires no thinking skills
and you definitely do not need experience as I was finding out. It’s a very “cushy”
job and the pay really sucks, but the benefits were hard to decline. Where else
can you sit all day curled up on the couch with your beverage of choice and
wait with baited breath to watch Steve Wilkos throw chairs across the stage
trying to intimidate the “guests” he INVITES onto his show. If you are not
familiar with this Steve Wilkos, he was once employed by Jerry Springer as his
body guard on the Jerry Springer show. He was the big burly baldheaded body
guard (try and say THAT 3 times fast) that broke up the majority of fights. He
also ran to Jerry’s aid a few times when Springer crossed the line and almost
ended up squashed on the floor when certain interviewee’s lost their temper. I
justified the “Couch Potato” position as trying to figure out who was more
screwed up on the day time talk shows. Was it the interviewer or the
interviewee? I have come to the realization that they all rate the same on the
intelligent scale. That’s when I thought to myself O.M.G is this what my life
has turned into? Waiting to see Steve Wilkos intimidate people by getting in
their face and throwing chairs across the room?? I THINK NOT! So it was back to
the real world and earning a living.
Monday, August 19, 2013
I'm checking another item off my Bucket List
I hope everyone has been enjoying what’s left of the summer
of 2013. The weather has been so unpredictable, one week being damn
chilly…almost fall like and then the next week the humidity is back with a
vengeance. I have to admit I do love the cool nights since it has been very
good for sleeping. The mornings are another story since one morning the house
was registering 61F when I got up. I hate to admit it, but I was out the other
day and I saw a few trees’ that have already started to turn colour at the very
top. Autumn is my favorite time of year but August is way too soon to see signs
of it, at least for me it is.
Well after months of saying that I was going to do it, and
never going through with it, I have now completed another Bucket List Item.
Yes, that’s right I finally did the zip lining and tree top canopy tour. After
going down the first two zip lines with my heart almost falling out of my chest
and landing with a rather huge thud on the platform at the other end I finally
got my zip lining legs so to speak. The third zip line I attacked with more
confidence than I knew I had and with a huge cry of excitement I cried out
“holy hell that was freaking awesome!” as I landed on the platform. Simon the
lead guide broke out in a fit of laughter but patted me on the back and told me
I was a natural. Now I know he was inflating my ego but damn it felt good! There
were a total of 8 zip lines, 2 suspension sky bridges, 14 tree topping canopy
platforms and a 40-foot rappel. That was the scariest of all, lowering yourself
down 40 feet of rope. I didn’t conquer my fear of heights and my legs almost
gave out once I hit the ground, but I did it! My whole body was shaking but
damn it I went outside my comfort zone to complete the one item on my bucket
list that was holding me back! I can honestly say with all the confidence of
the world…I AM WOMAN……HEAR ME ROAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!The course takes a total of 2.5
hours to complete and in my opinion well worth the money!
This coming weekend is just going to be a lazy one. I don’t
have anything planned as of yet, but who knows what might arise. The next
weekend I’ll be off camping for the long weekend. To me, that’s the perfect way
to end of the summer of 2013!
Have a wonderful week ahead my fellow bloggers and keep
smiling.
Monday, August 5, 2013
Just checking in
I hope everyone is enjoying their summer. I know I am....and in fact a bucket list item of mine will be tackled on the 17th. I'll be sure to post about it as soon as it's completed!!!
Here are a few pictures that caught my eye.
Here are a few pictures that caught my eye.
Sunday, July 7, 2013
Exploring on a Saturday
Saturday I traveled to Welland Ontario for a nice leisurely
drive. It takes a little over an hour to get there, but it’s been eons since I had
visited the city known for the ginormous boat locks of Welland Canal. It was
hot and humid, but with the truck a/c blowing and music pumping the drive was a
good one.
I have to admit once you get into the Niagara on the
Lake the scenery is really nice. Traffic wasn’t too bad either so it really was
a relaxing drive.
Once I had toured Welland, it was onto Niagara Falls
and battling mega traffic. Once I got off Lundy’s Lane (the main tourist street)
I was fine. It was then a long but easy drive towards the Butterfly Conservatory,
then onto The Floral Clock and The Brock Monument Statue.
I sat in the park for a bit and then made my way to the boat launch on the Niagara River. There I sat until sunset just relaxing and watching the water. The peace and serenity was something I really needed to clear my mind.
Friday, June 28, 2013
Monday, June 24, 2013
Summer Is Offically Here!!!
They say the only thing that is certain in life is death and taxes and
that is certainly true. Recently there have been two deaths within my little
circle of the world making me think about how short life really is. I found
myself feeling more vulnerable than I have ever felt. I guess I needed to have
some “me” time, hence my lack of blogging. I spent most of my time sitting out
on the deck reading or weeding the back garden thinking of nothing important
and just soaking up the warm summer days. I’m glad I chose to do that during
the previous few weeks since the Southern Ontario humidity has attack with a vengeance.
The other day the temperature hit 102 Fahrenheit with the humidity. Now I know
that to some people that’s a good temperature but for us Cunucks it’s rather a
brutal heat. I’m not sure why, but when the humidity is that high my hair seems
to take on its own personality. Curls pop up in the oddest ways and the frizz;
well let’s just say a curly frizzy afro is soooooooooo 1980’s. The hydro
(electric for my American bloggers) bill is going to be sky high since it has
been running constantly. The other day I actually dug out the plastic kid’s
swimming pool and filled it up so Bentley could cool off. As you see, he
lounged in it for most of the day.
Last night I was on the back deck and I was lucky enough to catch the Super Moon. The picture doesn’t do it justice since it was a pretty amazing sight. There hasn’t been a Super Moon since March 1993 and last night the moon passed by Earth at a distance of about 221,567 miles. Once upon a time I was going to be the first woman on the moon, but then my love of animals got the better of me and I decided I was going to be a Zoologist. I didn’t become either one but sometimes I feel like I AM living in a Zoo and I’ve often wished I could send certain ones a one way trip to the moon!
Since summer is officially here, I can hear the neighbourhood kids
filled with exciting chatter because there is only one day left of school. It
brings me back to when I was a kid. I can remember making a tent out of a few
of the old blankets and slipping under it with my book. Even back then I was a
book worm and read whenever I could. My sisters and brother would be drawing pictures
or colouring out on the picnic table while I was tucked away in my make shift
tent reading page after page of my book. There was one summer I was especially
addicted to The Little House on the Prairie serious and spent almost every
waking moment with Laura Ingalls at her little cabin in the big woods and then
the move to Walnut Grove. As I grew older I moved away from Laura Ingalls and
became good friends with Nancy Drew and the Hardy Boys. Now that I am grown I
read many different books, this summer’s read is Autobiography of Us by Aria
Beth Sloss.
Next Monday is Canada Day and I hope all my Canadian Blogger friends
have a safe and fun holiday weekend celebrating Canada’s 146th
Birthday!!
Thursday, June 6, 2013
Heading towards the Summer of 2013
Wow, already into June and summer is peeking around the
corner, although one couldn’t tell with the weather we have been having. One
week it is so hot and humid that I had to buckle under and turn on the air, and
the next week it is chilly enough to wear a sweater outside. I did read the Farmer’s
Almanac for Southern Ontario Canada and they are predicting a normal June until
the end of the month and then the brutal heat moves in. I guess we’ll just have
to wait and see if these predictions ring true.
Lately I have been running into an acquaintance of mine. I
haven’t seen her in years but my oh my did the years catch up when she told me
her youngest daughter (who was in one of my preschool classes) was going on 18.
We seem to be meeting in different aisles in the grocery store for the past 3
weeks, but each time we stand and chat again. It’s rather funny since we have
both been growing our hair longer, she says it’s to feel youthful again (which
is true) but I say it’s cause it makes my face look skinner (which is also
true) so in fact we both look youthful with skinny faces!
I just went for my summer pedicure and right now my feet
feel like a million dollars. That won’t last long though since I am a bare foot
summer girl through and through. When I’m at home, you’ll never see me wearing
a pair of shoes. I never really liked wearing shoes and socks and the only time
I will were them is if I have to go out.
I hope everyone is enjoying the last days of spring and
making wonderful plans for the summer of 2013!
Wednesday, May 22, 2013
Just checking in
Last weekend was the first long weekend of the summer season
and boy was it a nice one for a change. The nights were still pretty chilly but
with a warm campfire it made things so much better! The laughs and jokes filled
the night as we watched neighbourhood fireworks filling the skies.
The next day it was off to Port Dover to have
the first arbor dog and peach glow of the season.
I browsed the little shops
and I was good. I never bought anything……..this time. I might not have bought anything, but I did run across a sign in a shop that I just had to have. I didn't buy it, but since I had my camera on me I took a picture. :) I’ll leave the Port Dover
purchases to the end of summer when I go with a dear friend to end off the
summer.
(This goes very well with one of the questions I had to answer in order to accept the Liebster Award!)
Last Friday I was kind of taken back by a weird looking rainbow that
could be seen. There hadn’t been any rain, yet this appeared out of nowhere. I
guess Mother Nature can be filled with more surprises than just the change in
weather. I didn't have my camera on me but my daughter was able to catch this sight on her phone.
I have my new fountain up and running and it's so nice to be able to sit on the deck and hear the trickle of water. It really does remind me of the sound of a small creek. That's kinda cheesy to say but hey what can I say? I have cheesy moments at times :)
This coming weekend is going to be a busy one since we have
finally made the decision to build a wooden privacy fence down the one side of
the yard. At this point it’s just a plain ole chain link fence, but since I love
sitting outside first thing in the morning to have my coffee, I want a bit more
privacy than what I have right now. I also bought some plants that I am eager
to plant, but until the fence is up they will stay on the kitchen counter. Saturday
is the day Curly, Larry and Moe along with another pair of hands will begin
this project. With any luck there won’t be too many Band-Aids given out. As for
me, I’ll be sitting there watching with a supply of Tim Horton’s coffee beside
me on the deck table.
(A picture of the chain link fence soon to be replaced)
(Will post the after picture when complete)
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