Wednesday, April 20, 2011

The Letter L

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L is for Looking back

Since I’ve hit that major milestone in years I’ve found myself looking back to see where I’ve been. Some of those roads were so rocky that a bulldozer would have a hard time going down them, those are stories that I’ll leave for another time.

I can still see him standing proud and full of pride. He was a lot older than I was and certainly had some issues that plagued him where ever he went, but I didn’t mind. Where ever we went we had fun. He had experienced many things before he came into my life and me, being 14 yrs old counted on him to be there for me. Maybe I’ll write more about this wonderful side kick of mine and all the adventures we had one day. But for now, I’ll just look back on all the wonderful memories we shared.

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

The Letter K


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K is for Karma

People pay for what they do, and still more, for what they have allowed themselves to become. And they pay for it simply: by the lives they lead. ~Edith Wharton

Many people use the term without knowing the meaning of karma. They usually use 'karma' to explain bad things that have happened to them.
According to Wikipedia, the definition of karma is the concept of "action" or "deed". So it refers to positive and negative experiences. The meaning of karma simply refers to the process of cause and effect. Action causes reaction. Whatever you do, something will happen. Karma, the gift that keeps on giving…think before you act…before you speak…and remember, what you do unto others…you do unto yourself.

Monday, April 18, 2011

The Letter J

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J is for Just this and that

Not much has happened in my corner of the world. My Mother-in-law seems to be holding her own and that’s pissing her off. She has told us all she is waiting for that final bell to toll and it’s not happening for her. I have now refused to go there and listen to her while her kids sit with sad helpless looks on their faces. This just is not right.

Saturday my oldest daughter and her boyfriend returned from Las Vegas. They came by for dinner and we had a nice chat. During their time there, they took a side trip to the Grand Canyon. The pictures they took were absolutely amazing. This is one place I have marked down on my “bucket list” to visit, and after seeing the pictures and hearing them talk about the total serenity of it, I am more determined to go.



Last night I was going through some of my dads old pictures and came across one that really tugged at my heart strings. It really shows what sibling bonding was all about. It’s a picture of my Uncle Bryan sitting in a wagon as a child, holding a picture of my father when he was over seas. Even if the little boy was a stranger holding a picture of a man I didn’t know, to me it’s a very heartfelt picture.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

The Letter I


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I is for Individuality

All greatness of character is dependent on individuality. The person who has no other existence than that, which he partakes in common with all around him, will never have any other than an existence of mediocrity. (Quote by - James F. Cooper)

I must admit that there for a while I misplaced my own individuality in order to be accepted by a few. It’s a lesson in life that I think we all learn and the final lessons can be very hurtful. I became someone I really didn’t like and all for the sake of feeling as though I belonged. The hurt I had to feel opened my eyes to the fact that all that were in this so call “select” group lacked their own character and individuality since they all spoke as one when in a group yet cussed and complained in private because they did not like what was said or done. But enough of that I am now back to being me. I say what I feel and I keep company with those who are not afraid to be themselves and who also accept others for having their own individuality.

Saturday, April 16, 2011

The Letter H



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H is for Horoscope

Sagittarius – November 22- December 21

Saturday April 16 2011

A message from a friend could make your day, Sagittarius. The good news may involve travel, money, or a love relationship. There could also be an intellectual matter that you're anxious to look into, perhaps for the purpose of writing or teaching. A journey, possibly related to education, could be in the offing, perhaps with friends. A busy and stimulating day is definitely ahead.

I guess I’ll see if today’s horoscope is true or not

Friday, April 15, 2011

The Letter G

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G is for Goobers and Good and Plenty I really had to search my mind to come up with something for the letter G, and low and behold, somewhere tucked high up on the shelf of my memory a light flickered. Sometimes during the summer months a very,very, verrrrrrrrrrry long time ago if us kids had been good, our parents would treat us to a night at the Drive-In on a Friday or Saturday night. Our area had 2 Drive-Ins. The Breezes Drive-In, which was in town and The Sun Set Drive Drive-In on the outskirts of town. I seem to recall going to The Sun Set Drive-In more than The Breezes, but both brings back some really happy memories. I can remember having our dinner, clearing the table and doing the dishes. After everything was done and dad had read the paper we’d begin to pack the old red station wagon with a thick double sized piece of foam, blankets and pillows. Excitement rang through the bedrooms as us 4 kids changed into our pajamas and loaded into the car. We’d arrive at about 7:30 pm and we’d have to wait until the gates opened at 8. When the gates opened and each car was allowed in, dad would drive slowly around looking for a parking spot that had a working speaker between the playground and the concession booth. Since the movie didn’t start until dusk we were allowed to go to the playground for a little while. When it began to grow darker, dad would sound the horn 2 times telling us it was time to go back to the car. Once at the car dad would reach into his pocket and we’d get all excited as we heard the change jingling. I could hardly wait to get my quarter so I could go buy a box of my favourite candy. A box of Goobers. My sisters and brother always bought a box of Good and Plenty’s, but not me. I hated the taste of black liquorice and even the candy coating that covered the small pieces of liquorice tasted horrible. Me, I loved Goobers. The chocolate covered peanuts were my all time favourite. Money was tight back then and even though the popcorn, french fries, hamburgers and hotdogs smelled so good we made do with our candy without complaining……to much. We’d wait for each other to do the washroom thing and then all head back to the car. (I can still hear the crunching of the stones under our feet as we walked). Dad had taken that time to get the speaker adjusted onto the window while mom made up the foam mattress in the back. My youngest sister would sit up front with mom and dad while we sat in the back seat. At a certain time cars would start to honk there horns and then within minutes the movie would appear on the gigantic outdoor screen. About half way through the first movie (there was always a double feature) my youngest sister would begin to fall asleep. She’d climb over the seats and curl up under a blanket on the mattress. I’d usually be able to watch the first movie in its entirety, but by the time the Intermission was over I’d be drifting off. Ahhh…childhood memories!!!!

Thursday, April 14, 2011

The Letter F

Today’s blog is brought to you by the letter F



F is for Friendship

When two people share a strong bond of mutual understanding, respect and love it lays the foundation stone for an everlasting friendship. This bond just gets stronger with time; the trust between the two people grows and so does the attachment. Whether you are in a strawberry patch picking strawberries with a friend, talking on the phone, taking a long bike ride or sharing coffee at Tim Hortons, it begins to be the so call cement of the love of a friend. Every relationship whether it is a friendship or something deeper will occassionally run ashore. It's learning how to except and forgive one another that makes or breaks a friendship.

Searching for the meaning of friendship has always been a burning question. But as soon as we meet our friends all these questions get answered automatically. The answer to what is the meaning of friendship lies within our hearts, because true friendship can only be felt, and not expressed.

Something so pure and essential is not always visible to the eye, but is felt by the heart.